Tuesday, February 10, 2015

Preparing to graduate Hazel

First of all, I should thank God for giving me a chance able to breastfeed Hazel until this very moment. So thankful and grateful. It was not rainbow journey of course. From breast engorgement, milk blister and so on I'm glad that I choose to BF although not exclusively anymore. Another 3 months, Hazel will hit 2 and that the ideal age to stop breastfeeding. And that I'm planing to do.

The other day, we had a short conversation. Yes with Hazel. She is now understand well tho she barely speak. I asked her to stop nenen and she cried. I told her that i will put chilli on. She cried and stomped on my feet, walked away and back cried hard on my lap. Teary red eyes with snot. Took me some time to comfort her.  I think she wasn't ready yet.

I had a conversation my friend on how to encourage Hazel to quit. Her first tips was to put a chilli on. But I not dare to try. I don't think I can endure the 'hotness' later. Next is to apply red hamoi on to scare Hazel that she might think that red color is blood. Then the other mum interrupt our conversation and she say 'nanti pandai berhenti tu kalau Hazel ada adik'. Huh, I'm not ready yet for another additional members.

So until now I have not mention to Hazel about her quitting. She still love very much sucking until fell asleep and will crawl to me at night and pulling up my shirt and shifting sucking from one to another and fell asleep again. And she call it neneih when she wanted to.

Anyone can share a tips here?

Don't force me to quit!!

12 comments:

  1. even Bel and Russell kongsi nenen skg, sy x sampai hati mo kasi stop bf c bel. Dia lagi banyak nenen berbanding c russell. Jgn bah letak chilli, kesian...

    my friend's pya tips is, kasi pisah tidur di bilik lain.. pandai tu pisah susu..

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    1. time ko preg pun bel masi bf ka? aduh mcm anak kembar bah pla klau masi menyusu c bel..

      Kalau pisah tdr susa gia.. Km 3 ja d ruma nnt siapa kwan dia tdr..huhuh..lg pun sa masi clingy sm dia ni skg..sgt clingy

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    2. Lamanya baru sy reply. Hahaha.

      Iya, waktu sy pregnant mmg sy masih kasi susu c bel. Sampai sy jalan p hospital, masih lagi dia nenen..


      Sy xda plan oh mau wean off dia betul2 dari bf... Haiya... Mcm mn laini...

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    3. dia jarang sda nenen skg sb kuat makan..ada sa slow talk dia so that stop nenen but masi sia nangis..kalau tdr masi lagi ni mau cari nenen.. Huh

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  2. sy py plan pun mula2 mau kasi stop bf bila dia masuk 2 thn. tp kesian bah dia menangis2 sampai tebalik bibir. skrg mcm slowly suda dia nda mencari , kalau mau tidur ja. so sy rasa slowly mmg boleh berenti jg. mungkin ko boleh ikut mcm kakak sy, dia kasi letak handyplus. hihi. dia ckp sama anak nya nenen sakit, kalau ok baru boleh nenen. skrg terstop suda ni.

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    1. Ada masa dia X pndi cari..tp klau dtg manja mmg mncari ja la.. N klau tdr mmg melekat ja sm nenen.. Bh sa try ltk plaster la nnt..hihi..

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  3. Walaupun x exclusively BF, still an achievement baitu BF smpai 2thn! Sy dulu mmg teda susu baa.. maybe 1 of the factor jg tu BCa. huhuh..

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    1. Iya an achievement jg la.. Ya i heard jg yg high risk bc klau x bf ni

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  4. Well, this is not my department. I mean, I dunno anything about this topic. But I can only say just continue using bottle and natural together then slowly increasing the bottle consumption and decreasing the natural consumption. Then last last only use bottle hehe. I dunno whether that will work haha.

    Happy Tuesday, Beaty!

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    1. Hahha..bh nnt ur have ur own child dulu lah..hahahha.. Huh how good o kalau hazel want more fm than bm but it vice versa.. She loves boobs than bottle.. still trying tho..haha

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    2. Hahha..bh nnt ur have ur own child dulu lah..hahahha.. Huh how good o kalau hazel want more fm than bm but it vice versa.. She loves boobs than bottle.. still trying tho..haha

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